Woods the Through and Hill the Over

We’re home once again. The weather driving, as expected was atrocious. It reminded me of going to MA in 2001, when all the kids went with us. I think that is the last time we went to Louise & Scott’s house rather than them coming here. Anyway – it was shortly after 9/11 of course and I was struck by the normalcy of the travelers on the road with us. There were a lot of American flags on all the cars and there was a sort of affinity among all of us strangers. But mainly I had this sense of the persistance of doing what we always do – get together with people we love to celebrate our blessings. This year on the way there, in between fearing for my life as gi-normous trucks blew past us with gallons of rain water spewing off of them and into our windshield, I thought a lot about that other trip and the changes since. Even from the highway, at night you can see into some houses and lives, in a way that you can’t in the daytime. Families putting up Christmas decorations and watching TV and eating a meal together. Fast flashes of people’s personal cinema. Normal. Ordinary. But such a blessing. One we take for granted most of the time, but even that fact is a blessing in itself – because we can.

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Norm!

A Christmas Carol being one of my all-time favorite books, I had to watch the musical version last night on NBC. At the time, maybe because I was so tired, it seemed not horrible. Thinking about it today though, it is getting more awful as the day goes on.

Kelsey Grammer was okay I suppose, though why he had to hunch so I am not sure. Jason Alexander’s time on the screen was mercifully short – ick. Jesse L. Martin as the ghost of Christmas present? I think it is interesting casting to have a black guy in the role, but couldn’t they find one who can sing? yeeeeesh!

I understand that all the music necessitated the compressing of other story elements, but having the Crachitts and the nephew live on the same street was a stretch too far. They could have left out the dancing nutcracker/soldier bit and had Scrooge take a bit more of a hike to get to Christmas dinner.

It made me grateful for my DVD of the George C. Scott version to offset the memory.

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80% Chance of Irritation

It’s pouring rain. Waiting for Lar to get home & to find out if we are going to my sister’s for T’giving or staying here and ending up at his parent’s house [ugh]. If we go, we have a 6 hour drive in pouring rain on one of the busiest traffic days of the entire year. [also ugh] I want to go and I know we will survive the drive, but ugh anyway.

My friend Donna’s Mom has a blood disorder that is a precursor of leukemia. She is here visiting her and I looked up the condition online for her since she is staying at a motel. Maybe that is contributing to my grey mood – I don’t know. They may take her to CA to live in a nursing home there. Then they can see her every day and be able to take her out where there is some sun. Anyway – we will see them Sunday when we get back if we can all work it out.

I am content with giving all of this to God – it will be as He decides.

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Soup

In talking with the 3 people [in addition to my husband] with whom I speak nearly every day, I mention that I am making pork soup for dinner. Louise & Ellyn both said “ew”. Lauren received the information in a way front-loaded to elicit some other response [“tell me your reaction to this”] so she said “sounds interesting”. She does not really care much for pork which is how I know I front-loaded the question.

I have to agree that we do not see Cambells Cream of Pork soup in the grocery store. I am not sure I have ever heard of any sort of pork soup before. Maybe some Mexican offshoot of Menudo would use pork? It is excellent though – very garlicky with lots of low carb veggies and, as of the last 5 minutes, 2 jalapeños. They are from the freezer, previously from the garden, lovingly grown by Larry, the other person to whom I speak every day. They are the hottest jalapeños we have ever grown – the hottest ones I have ever had in fact. I pickled some and various persons who have tried them all agree – they are very hot. Very good but no one can eat a whole one at one sitting. Well except the guy at Larry’s work who popped one in his mouth whole and started crunching it before Lar had a chance to tell him about the very hot part. He looked unwell for the remainder of the day and declined to have another the next day at lunch. His consumption of the one attained epic proportions by the end of that job and was an oft repeated tale at lunch time when small pieces were shared. “Yeah – whatshisname [I do not know his name] put a whole one in his mouth and we thought he was gonna die!” Anyway – I just cut the jalapeños in half, seeded them and put the halves in the soup – I will remove them before it gets too spicy. I don’t want the whole thing entirely overpowered by jalapeño.

The original concept of the pork soup was that I wanted to use up some stuff in the fridge before leaving on our trip in the morning. Now the trip is postponed and I don’t know what the heck we will eat for the next two days.

Two weeks ago, Larry’s Mom gave me a sewing machine that belonged to his grandmother. I am not a very good seamstress, but I want to make curtains for our room and I figure I will be able to handle something flat with straight lines sewn around it. All the kids will be here in less than two weeks and I have had considerable clearing out of spare bedrooms to accomplish before they all get here. Things had to be got rid of – donations to the Mission which operates a second hand store to help support their ministry to down and out people. In between trips to the woods, in celebration of the opening of deer season, Larry said he would run the stuff to town for me. We pack up the van and off he goes. An hour or so later, I see that he has returned and there is something in the back of the van that was not there before. It is a sewing machine that some lady was trying to drop off [as an aside, I should mention that this lady thought Lar was one of the down and out people who work at the Mission. He was in the woods all morning and was not looking as spiffy as he might have] Larry, seeing the fancy cams and such that came with the sewing machine his Mom gave me, thinks it will be too complicated for him to use. He wants to sew his own patches on jeans, a task I admit I give lip service to doing, but I rarely actually follow up with action of the sort that would see the jeans patched. [they cost $10 a pair at Walmart for pete’s sake! Buy new ones!] I didn’t have a lot of room for one sewing machine and now I have two. The jalapeños have imparted the proper amount of heat and have been removed. The soup is very good.

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Write your plans in pencil…

So, God wraps a blessing in a package that requires an adjustment in thinking. Putting off our trip a couple days due to unexpected work. A test for me really – I didn’t want to answer the call when I saw who it was and I wanted to say no while I was talking with him. But, even as I was forming the words in my brain, I hear a very clear word in my spirit to say “he’ll take it”.

At least we can still go – our visit will be cut short by two days but will still happen. What a great DH I have – after working all that day, he is still willing to take on a 6 hr drive and be away during shotgun season. Of course he doesn’t want to have to spend Thursday with his family any more than I do and it would be kind of unavoidable since we live next door. Hard to hide that you are home from people you asked to come down and feed your cat!

Families – gotta love ’em!

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